Visitors to this site will discover a host of high-minded reasons to study grammar. But here's one we hadn't thought of. According to an article in Monday's Guardian newspaper, good grammar can help an online romancer find the love of his or her life:
The internet dating profile is a unique literary form: somewhere between an anonymous love letter and CV, it is designed to cast its romantic (cyber) net as wide as possible.
But a good profile is difficult to write. The British are often uncomfortable talking about themselves. As a result, many online profiles are a collection of cliches, text-speak and exclamation marks. Sites are full of "genuine, easy-going, sensitive" people who "love laughing" (does anybody hate it?) and "enjoy evenings out and evenings in." . . .
When asked what attracts them to a profile, most internet daters say honesty, humour, warmth, modesty, originality and good grammar (always re-read what you've written and use a spell checker to spot mistakes). If you use some, or all, of these, you will improve your chances of success.
(Marc Zakian, "Raising Your Profile," The Guardian, January 26, 2009)
So beware of any potential solemate seeking a monotonous relationship with someone who enjoys washing sunsets while ocean breezes sweep through your hare.
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I agree with you 100%. I AM the Internet Dating Diva. It’s true, you are judged by the way you write. I know I do.
I once came across a guy who claimed to have a Master’s degree in engineering. He’s profile was terribly written with numerous
grammatical errors. Red Flag! As it turned out, he was a “master mechanic,” he did not have his Master’s in engineering. True story.
Ah, yes. I was once courted by an e-male who professed to be a Renaissance man… except he spelled “Renaissance” wrong! Needless to say, I did not respond.